Chuck, I would try your local Napa if the sources I gave dont pan out. As long as it's black, single spade connector, and if possible you could take the other end on the reciever dryer with you,, if not take a pic and try and measure the connector carefully. Most parts jobbers will take an electrical part back if it shows that it hasnt been plugged in,(no scratches on the 'blades") Search Rock Auto,, I saw a 2 spade but quickly looked thru it.
I did find one on http://www.jimsautoparts.com he has the harness which would include the female connector,(I would assume but would call him to make sure before ordering), BUT it's 48.00 bucks!!!! Sorry, if you have to go this route. Part#FW-972AC