First of all you have to understand that you can get stroker cranks in a few different stroke lengths. You can even offset grind a stock crank to get a small stroke difference.
The most common stroker lengths for a 440 are 4.15 and 4.25 inches. There are bigger and smaller options too.
Normally you will either need a shorter rod to use stock 440 pistons or (if the stroke is not too long) you can use pistons that have the pin higher up in the piston.
I seem to remember a 4.15 stroke crank works with stock rods and pistons from a 400 b-block.
Aftermarket rods are not that expensive these days and are usually lighter and stronger than the stock rods. I would go that route if it was me.
Don't worry about the bearing sizes. You just order the correct size.
Don't decide on your intake until you have decided on your cam and heads. Then pick an intake that best suits the rpm the engine works best at. Same with the pistons. Your compression ratio depends on what cam you want to use. The heads and cam have to match each other.
With a stroker engine you can use a 'wilder' cam than in an ordinary engine.
Have a look at the crank kits for sale here;
http://www.hughesengines.com/crank_kits ... _index.asp
Also have a look at this page
http://www.hughesengines.com/cams/heh_guide.asp as it will help you pick a cam and matching parts.
Remember though that the bigger the engine the more tame the cam will seem compared to the examples described.