My web site will help you to answer your first two questions.
To get the most out of it you need to read the 1970 page in detail first and then the next year etc until you get to the model year of your car.
Doing it that way you would have found that what you call 'Magnum 500' wheels were a factory option but Chrysler called them 'Chrome Road Wheels' as Magnum 500 is what F**d called them.
I have a page with most options de-coded on it. If you need any help just ask because that is what the message board is for
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