Update**** well after 16 hours of trial and elimination i finally found the problem.
the alternator that is original and nearly 20 years since its last rebuild,had a nasty short inside.i brought it in for a rebuild and the guy tested the alternator and he called me and said everything inside was pretty much shot! 
 
 
let me tell you guys that a short is one hell of a lot of work to find.
first i tried the starter relay putting in a new one and problem still there.
second i removed the fuse and wire panels at the firewall.what i found was smoky residue at the thick red ignition wire and at the black thick alternator positive wire.my first guess was the ignition wire so out came the steering wheel and part of the colum.no signs of bad wires in the column or ignition area.
third i followed the black positive wire to the alternator and as soon as i unhooked the wire i tested another temporary fuse link and vowlla the car started 
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 3 burnt fuse links later and about 16 hours of pulling my hair 

 i think i got it. 
should get the freshly rebuilt alternator next week and i will let everyone know if all is fine. 
